Sometimes
- ciaraheneghan9
- Sep 30, 2025
- 2 min read
Sometimes things don't go to plan and ... that's the point!

It's that simple. Sometimes something much much better is about to happen if we can just take our attachment from the plan and chuck it in the bin. Or as I prefer to say, 'chuck it in the fu&k it bucket'.
Attachments are a bugger for holding us back and we have them everywhere and with everyone and so many things. Plans especially! But imagine trusting that whatever is meant to be will be?
Does that mean we don't bother with a plan at all? Not exactly, and kind of, and no, and also yes.
The plan will unfold as you take the steps that come to you intuitively. And I can already hear you saying but Ciara ... there is a way to do things. True ... there is a way ... the way you have been taught. Is it the only way? No! There are other ways, you just don't know them, I didn't either.
There is a way to do things that actually is completely from intuition, from aligned action, from moving when called, and from paying attention to the nudges ... even if those nudges move you in a direction that you're uncertain of. It all a bit wild when you start doing it this way first and why wouldn't it be, you have been super structured until now ... so was I.
Then, you begin to learn to release the attachment to the structure as you know it, and instead .... you begin to build a structure as you go, and as you grow.
And just so you know, it actually feels pretty cool to do it this way, a little unhinged, I won't lie, but cool nonetheless, and if you're here reading this then the realm of unhinged is where you do your best creating so ... welcome!
What plan do you have right now that you could release attachment from and go in this new and possibly better direction? Would you? Do you dare?
xoxo
Ciara




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