It's Your Dream
- ciaraheneghan9
- Sep 30, 2025
- 3 min read
When was the last time you sat down, alone, completely in silence?
Now, I don't mean like a total psychopath with nothing to do, rocking back and forth wondering who your next victim will be but also ... kinda!
Except ... your next 'victim' is yourself.
Sitting down completely silent, no music on, nothing to do, not doing breakthwork or deep breathing, or mantras, or visualisations, or happy & gratefuls, just sitting. In the silence. Allowing the sound of it to wash over you. Yes ... there is a sound of silence. (hello darkness my old friend ... did you sing that?)
Why would you want to do this I hear you ask? And why on earth am I referring to you as a 'victim' of or for youself? Well ... because I can and I am. It can be that simple.
But to answer your question properly and not like my older brother used to do to his kids when they would ask him why they would have to do what he told them to, and he would answer with; 'because I said so'. No ... I am better than that sort of thing! ;)
So here is why you would sit in silence.
Because your dreams are screaming at you from the inside out to 'please ... for the love of all thats holy .. listen to us and do something about us'. Or maybe they are whispering, but have been doing so for so long, all the while being ignored, and are starting to get louder.
Your dream of writing a book ...
Your dream of starting a business ...
Your dream of setting up a charity for something you hold exceptionally dear ...
Your dream of running that marathon ...
Your dream of learning to fly a plane ...
Your dream of sky diving/bungee jumping/owning a dog sanctury/meeting the president ...
So. Many. Dreams. Locked. Away. Inside. Your. Pretty. Big. Head. And you are just ignoring them because of what?
Fear?
Uncertainty?
A dose of the 'what ifs'
'Imposter Syndrome'
Overthinking
Analysis Paralysis
The but-its-been-done-before-itis
Feeling not good enough
Failure
Success
Anxiety
STOOOOPPPPPPPP!
You must be exhausted with all that nonsense floating round your head. You are making life way harder than it needs to be. Your deeply ingrained belief systems, patterns, and conditioning have you thinking it has to be difficult. It couldn't just be as easy as taking a step and making it happen.
But what if it could?
What if you began by writing it down?
We are here in the The Editors Files after all so, when are you going to become the INSTANT AUTHOR of your own LIFE?
When might you be ready ( side note ... you are always ready, you were born that way) to take some time in silence, listen to the dreams inside you begging to be set free, and actually trust that YOU are the ONLY person who is meant to make them REAL. Not you alone, no ... its not about being an island of one, but being the catalyst to your dreams being made real, and then all the people who are meant to help you do it, finding their way to you.
Because when you open yourself up to being the dream creator, a light goes on inside you that is unmistakable. It is as bright as the sun and it radiates out of you like a beacon to all that are supposed to br drawn to it, and ergo ... to you.
I know you have it in you because we are the same. In so many ways, we are the same. The only difference between us is ... I make my dreams come true. I am the INSTANT AUTHOR of my own life every day and I love the fun and depth of emotion that all brings.
So, if that is our only difference, why couldn't you do the same thing?
You dreams are waiting my gorgeous friend, please don't make them wait any longer. You are doing them ... and yourself ... and the world ... a great disservice by not allowing them out to play.
xoxo
Ciara
Editor in Chief - ALL IN MAGAZINE




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